What a bummer!!!

I was getting ready to go out with hubby when I received a call from an unfamiliar number. Usually I will never pick up a call from an unknown caller. But today was different. I answered and I was greated by a very soft-spoken lady whom I remembered clearly - Dr Sadhana. After my Friday's sonogram, I was expecting her call actually but I didn't know that it was gonna be this soon. She voiced her concern about the many cysts in my ovaries. She was also concern about their sizes.

Hey to tell you the truth, since Friday I was concern too. I was worried.

She did mention that if I wanna do the IVF I need to do a surgery to first remove the cysts. Well yup... There goes my IVF journey for the time being. It has come to a screeching halt. Was I upset? Surprising no... I was much stronger than I expected myself to be. No tears, nothing. In fact I was calm. When she asked me to come down tomorrow for another scan, I was ready. In fact even if the size of the cysts are not that big, I might still go for the surgery after all. Just to be sure that my body is in its most prime condition for the IVF procedure.

So yes Alyssa_r, I will not be able to be you cycle buddy this time around. I wish all the best for you. May you achieve your dreams in the nearest time possible.

Some of you might wonder. Wasn't I so eager and excited to start on this IVF journey? YES I was. In fact I am still excited about the journey and the possibility of it. But I am more concern in getting rid of this persistent back ache that I am having as well as the horrible monthly AF. Perhaps with the cysts removed, things will improved for me. No more squirming and screaming in pain everytime AF come to visit.

Wasn't I the least upset? 1 week ago I might have sat down on the floor crying over the obstacles after obstacles that I am faced with. But today, no I am not upset. Coz after my appointment with the MSW I have learnt to let go. I have learnt that there are so much you can plan for but some things are just beyond your comprehension and reach. I have 2 ways of looking at this. Sit down and mourn about my life or get back on my feet and do the best I can to face whatever obstacles that is put in our path. I have a new motto in life:

"We all fail at some point in life. It is not the failing that hurts but rather knowing that we didn't try our best. As long as you have done your best, lift up your head... life must go on"