I have been at work since morning but there was nothing much to do. Perhaps I should have thought about this earlier, took leave earlier and start my IVF cycle earlier. Well what is past is past. Let's not think about it. Let's look ahead. But you know sometimes you just can't help but think. If I had gone for the treatment earlier, would I have been pregnant earlier. If I had gone straight to IVF instead of IUI, would it have bear us fruits sooner and save us alot of money.
Well let's not think about it and move on. Was doing some reading online since I was free.And found the following article. By the way, the one in italics are my own comments.
Many misperceptions surround the subjects of conception and fertility, in large part due to the fact that these topics aren’t generally discussed among friends and family, and many people don’t even bring them up with their doctors. The following are some common myths about fertility and the facts that may surprise you.
Myth: Getting pregnant is easy.
Fact: While it may appear some women can get pregnant easily, the fact is one in eight couples in the United States will experience problems with fertility.
What about in Singapore. What is the statistics like? I tried searching but no conclusive results.
Myth: Lots of women are waiting until their 40s to start a family, so I have plenty of time.
Fact: While news abounds about celebrities having children well into their 40s, some of these women may actually be using donor eggs, or even surrogate carriers. The truth of the matter is the longer you wait to try to become pregnant, the slimmer your chances of conceiving. Fertility begins to decline for women at age 27 and dramatically declines by the age of 35. After age 40, women who do become pregnant face a 50 percent chance of miscarriage, so the earlier a couple seeks a fertility evaluation, the better able they’ll be to take steps to conceive.
In Singapore, I guess this is pretty untrue. There are of course cases where women think about career first and family later but I don't think it reach a stage where they wait till they are 40 to start a family. Look at me... I was 24 when I started trying to conceive actively but I am still unsuccessful. I am currently 27, turning 28 next year. According to results fertility begins to decline at age 27 so I guess it was a good decision on my part to start IVF this year.
Myth: If you have a regular period, you can conceive.
Fact: A woman’s fertility can be impacted even though there are no disruptions with her menstrual cycle. A period does not necessarily mean that a woman is ovulating or releasing an egg. A couple should speak to their physician if they are under the age of 35 and have been attempting to conceive for one year without success. If the couple is over the age of 35, they should seek treatment if they have been trying to conceive without success for six months.
So NOT true. I have regular periods. My period is on the dot. 28 days and AF will appear on the 29th day. But here I am 4 years down the road of TTC with no results.
Myth: A couple’s fertility problems are caused by the woman.
Fact: This is one of the most commonly believed fertility myths. In fact, fertility problems can be attributed to the man 35 percent of the time and to the woman 35 percent. In 20 percent of cases, it is a combined man/woman problem and in 10 percent of cases the problem is unexplained. Should they suspect problems, both the man and the woman should undergo a full fertility evaluation.
In my case, Dr diagnosed it as male factors. So guys out there, please do not just blame the ladies. You can be responsible for your current situation too. Just go with your wife for the check up.
Myth: Home remedies, such as taking cough syrup, can help you get pregnant.
Fact: It is never a good idea to self-medicate based on these kinds of legends. There is no proof, either in clinical or observational studies, that these products have any effect on fertility. Talking to your doctor about your options to become pregnant is the best way to help you conceive.
Tried and tested... Maybe others have succeeded but not in my case. I mean maybe the situations are different in all cases.
Myth: An OB/Gyn specializes in fertility and can provide all of the services needed to treat fertility problems.
Fact: When a couple experiences trouble getting pregnant, they should first speak with the woman’s OB/Gyn about their concerns. While most OB/Gyns do not have a specialty in fertility, they will be able to answer a couple’s basic questions and some may offer limited services to treat fertility problems. However, when these preliminary tests and treatments do not resolve a fertility problem, an OB/Gyn may refer the couple to a specialist, known as a reproductive endocrinologist (RE). REs have special training and equipment that enable them to provide the treatment and attention needed for couples facing fertility issues.
I went straight to a gynae. Here once you mention that you have been trying actively for more than a year and yet have not conceive, they will take in your case and not oush you away. You just need to overcome the original barrier. The shame etc. You can't feel ashame to get help if you want to achieve your dream.
Myth: If you stop worrying and just relax, you’ll get pregnant.
Fact: Fertility problems are often medical in nature and can be treated. The associated stress is a result - not a cause - of these problems. While reducing the stress associated with fertility problems may improve your overall quality of life, it does not mean that you will conceive if you “just relax.” Talk to your doctor about ways to incorporate stress reduction into your fertility treatment plan to make the process easier on you and your partner.
Relax??? Hahaha very funny. First of all with family and relatives asking every month whether you have conceived..how to be relax? Even if you do get a chance to be relax, if the sperms and eggs are not meeting, no fertilisation will take place, no babies are gonna appear.
The best way to debunk common misperceptions and learn the facts on fertility and conception is to talk to your doctor and educate yourself through trusted sources, such as www.fertilityjourney.com.
Courtesy of ARAcontent
Well let's not think about it and move on. Was doing some reading online since I was free.And found the following article. By the way, the one in italics are my own comments.
Many misperceptions surround the subjects of conception and fertility, in large part due to the fact that these topics aren’t generally discussed among friends and family, and many people don’t even bring them up with their doctors. The following are some common myths about fertility and the facts that may surprise you.
Myth: Getting pregnant is easy.
Fact: While it may appear some women can get pregnant easily, the fact is one in eight couples in the United States will experience problems with fertility.
What about in Singapore. What is the statistics like? I tried searching but no conclusive results.
Myth: Lots of women are waiting until their 40s to start a family, so I have plenty of time.
Fact: While news abounds about celebrities having children well into their 40s, some of these women may actually be using donor eggs, or even surrogate carriers. The truth of the matter is the longer you wait to try to become pregnant, the slimmer your chances of conceiving. Fertility begins to decline for women at age 27 and dramatically declines by the age of 35. After age 40, women who do become pregnant face a 50 percent chance of miscarriage, so the earlier a couple seeks a fertility evaluation, the better able they’ll be to take steps to conceive.
In Singapore, I guess this is pretty untrue. There are of course cases where women think about career first and family later but I don't think it reach a stage where they wait till they are 40 to start a family. Look at me... I was 24 when I started trying to conceive actively but I am still unsuccessful. I am currently 27, turning 28 next year. According to results fertility begins to decline at age 27 so I guess it was a good decision on my part to start IVF this year.
Myth: If you have a regular period, you can conceive.
Fact: A woman’s fertility can be impacted even though there are no disruptions with her menstrual cycle. A period does not necessarily mean that a woman is ovulating or releasing an egg. A couple should speak to their physician if they are under the age of 35 and have been attempting to conceive for one year without success. If the couple is over the age of 35, they should seek treatment if they have been trying to conceive without success for six months.
So NOT true. I have regular periods. My period is on the dot. 28 days and AF will appear on the 29th day. But here I am 4 years down the road of TTC with no results.
Myth: A couple’s fertility problems are caused by the woman.
Fact: This is one of the most commonly believed fertility myths. In fact, fertility problems can be attributed to the man 35 percent of the time and to the woman 35 percent. In 20 percent of cases, it is a combined man/woman problem and in 10 percent of cases the problem is unexplained. Should they suspect problems, both the man and the woman should undergo a full fertility evaluation.
In my case, Dr diagnosed it as male factors. So guys out there, please do not just blame the ladies. You can be responsible for your current situation too. Just go with your wife for the check up.
Myth: Home remedies, such as taking cough syrup, can help you get pregnant.
Fact: It is never a good idea to self-medicate based on these kinds of legends. There is no proof, either in clinical or observational studies, that these products have any effect on fertility. Talking to your doctor about your options to become pregnant is the best way to help you conceive.
Tried and tested... Maybe others have succeeded but not in my case. I mean maybe the situations are different in all cases.
Myth: An OB/Gyn specializes in fertility and can provide all of the services needed to treat fertility problems.
Fact: When a couple experiences trouble getting pregnant, they should first speak with the woman’s OB/Gyn about their concerns. While most OB/Gyns do not have a specialty in fertility, they will be able to answer a couple’s basic questions and some may offer limited services to treat fertility problems. However, when these preliminary tests and treatments do not resolve a fertility problem, an OB/Gyn may refer the couple to a specialist, known as a reproductive endocrinologist (RE). REs have special training and equipment that enable them to provide the treatment and attention needed for couples facing fertility issues.
I went straight to a gynae. Here once you mention that you have been trying actively for more than a year and yet have not conceive, they will take in your case and not oush you away. You just need to overcome the original barrier. The shame etc. You can't feel ashame to get help if you want to achieve your dream.
Myth: If you stop worrying and just relax, you’ll get pregnant.
Fact: Fertility problems are often medical in nature and can be treated. The associated stress is a result - not a cause - of these problems. While reducing the stress associated with fertility problems may improve your overall quality of life, it does not mean that you will conceive if you “just relax.” Talk to your doctor about ways to incorporate stress reduction into your fertility treatment plan to make the process easier on you and your partner.
Relax??? Hahaha very funny. First of all with family and relatives asking every month whether you have conceived..how to be relax? Even if you do get a chance to be relax, if the sperms and eggs are not meeting, no fertilisation will take place, no babies are gonna appear.
The best way to debunk common misperceptions and learn the facts on fertility and conception is to talk to your doctor and educate yourself through trusted sources, such as www.fertilityjourney.com.
Courtesy of ARAcontent
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